Principles Governing Life and Relationships
Compiled by Ilene Dillon
1. Each person is individually responsible for his/her own
life, its experiences, cast of characters and consequences.
2. Each event and experience in life is an opportunity for
growth. Earth can be viewed as a giant school, whose teacher’s name is
Experience. In relating, seek balance.
3. Pain spurs people to growth.
Shielding someone from pain which results from his/her own choices denies
the opportunity for growth.
4. You get what you want, not what you need.
5. Ours is a world of duality:
for every negative quality there is its positive.
6. What you have inside of you, you tend to attract from
outside.
7. Help not asked
for never works
8. When you operate on the motive of fear, you are
guaranteed to create that which you fear.
9. Cutting back your own personal power or energy invites
abuse.
10. Comments made by another reflect his/her beliefs and
attitudes, and are not necessarily a comment about you.
11. Share the process you are experiencing, not the content
(details)
12. Change is inevitable.
Expect it, seek it, encourage it in yourself and others.
13. Human behavior is designed to get energy, usually in
the form of attention.
14. Each action, reaction and interaction sets a law into
motion for the future.
15. Each person has a separate, unique personal rhythm
which must be respected, allowed for, and discovered.
16. Emotions do not need to be for a reason; they just are.
17. Emotions are transmitted, whether spoken or unspoken.
18. Process your own feelings as much as possible before
sharing them with others.
19. Know and follow the 72 Hour Rule,
which is: As a general rule,
whenever you take a risk, make a choice or have a powerful experience, keep your
thoughts and reactions to yourself for 72 hours, so that you can allow the
internal sorting
that occurs for all humans and gain the full learning benefit from the
experience.
20. Emotions left unfinished (now or later) create
separateness.
21. Sharing inner emotions with another (including anger)
is a gift. Get anger out of you but not onto others.
22. Make decisions for yourself, first, and then consult
with, and get help from others.
Wait 72 hours prior to getting consultation or help, if at all possible.
23. Compromise works
only when it doesn’t
build resentment.
24. Each person has rights, including the right to ask for
what one believes one needs or wants, remembering the other person’s
right to say no.
Whatever comes up in you is important enough to discuss.
25. Pay attention to what you want to become, not to what
you want to overcome.
26. Gratitude is the Law of Increase.
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new patterns that guarantee success
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