Activism + Artistry: Speaking out for change
by Gail Larsen
This month in Vancouver, 17 inspiring people attended my Speak Out! workshop
to build their speaking skills to catalyze personal and planetary change. Ten
ideas emerged to support you when you are faced with an audience whose worldview
and values are markedly different from your own.
- Recognize that if everyone is already on board with you, you are preaching
to the choir. It’s uplifting to find audiences that respond, of course. But
often your mission requires that you open up new avenues of understanding and
potential support. The first step in change is beginning a conversation that
introduces a new framework or language. Consider the changes in your own
awareness over time and honor what it takes to move to a different point of
view.
- Learn to tell the truth without blame or judgment, a principle from The
Four Fold Way by Angeles Arrien. When you judge someone, it comes through and
shuts down communication – that’s just as true in public speaking as it is at
home! Move beyond right and wrong and address the problem rather than blame the
person.
- Understand that “facts” and statistics are often manipulated. People can
argue with your data, but they can’t argue with the truth of your experience.
The undeniable encounter with a real person with a real story that contradicts
what we think we know can cause us to open up our hearts and our thinking. So
share your stories with their full authenticity and impact, thereby making the
human connection that sets the stage for your information to be more readily
heard.
- Learn about your audience in advance and demonstrate your competence by
being current on what is relevant to them. Don’t go beyond your area of
expertise or fake it if you’re asked a question you can’t answer. You build more
credibility by saying, “I don’t know the answer to that.” Follow-up later with a
thoughtful response if you believe it would be constructive and build the
relationship.
- Include yourself in the problem. For example, if your issue is global
warming, acknowledge your concern about your own environmental impact. If you
refer to your impact as your “carbon footprint,” recognize you may be
introducing new terminology to your audience, so explain it and refer them to a
website such as
http://www.carbonfootprint.com/calculator.html to learn more and
make their own assessment.
- Read Power vs. Force by David Hawkins. Whether or not you accept as
scientific fact his calibration of the energetic vibration of various worldviews
and states of being, it’s a reminder to use the power of higher values with
people who can hear you rather than the force of argument with those who can’t.
Note where your spirit remains strong so you can work with joy. Your energy is a
precious resource in the work of change.
- Stay inspired by people and practices that nourish you. A member of our
group pointed out that an advertising message has to be heard 50 times before
someone makes a decision to buy, so don’t underestimate your part in
establishing the foundation for a later tipping point. When you’re feeling alone
and unheard, seek support.
- Acknowledge that you hold a different perspective. A compelling speech
meets the audience where they are. If it is clear you hold an opposing
viewpoint, say so and tell the story of how you came to your current thinking.
- Don’t use jargon - language that is familiar to you but not to those who
are beginning to learn about your cause. People will shut down and stop
listening. Nor do they want to ask questions when they don’t understand your
terminology for fear of looking uninformed or stupid. (Refer to #5 above.)
- If you are concerned about “corporate” response, remember that corporate
audiences are comprised of individuals. Ipsos, the global market research firm,
surveyed senior managers in Canada and found that 82% are seeking new jobs, so
lack of alignment with organizational values is likely at play. Rather than
expecting to reach everyone, provide a starting point for change with specific
steps an individual can take on his or her own. People want to know what they
can do, so give them something immediate to say yes to.
As you work for change, trust that what you do matters, whether or not you
see immediate results. No one else has the same configuration of life experience
and perspective that you hold. This is your “original medicine,” no where else
duplicated. Your voice is needed on issues that impact our sacred earth and
determine our collective future. Martin Luther King, Jr., did not change history
by saying, “I have a complaint!” notes human rights leader Van Jones. You can
inspire with a vision of the dream you hold for a better world, and then follow
with the practical steps we can take to get there. It is the foundation for
building support, partnerships, and coalitions that count.
(c) 2003 Gail Larsen.
Gail Larsen is the founder of
Real Speaking. She supports people in discovering
and giving voice to the message that is theirs to speak, then identify the
markets and format where it will be heard.
Reprinted from "Real Speaking Power Points” a free e-letter by Gail Larsen
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